Detaching

 Breaking Away From A Relationship

IF THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE REALLY IS OUT OF CONTROL, IT MAY WELL BE CHEAPER NOT TO KEEP HER. In fact, she may actually succeed in turning your very life into a state of bankruptcy. If she not the "right one," maybe you should let her go, before you end up losing your car, your home and even your mind. Men who have always been told never to give up may have to learn to do just that, to "give up" on something that will never work anyway.

One of the best ways, however, to deal with a bad situation like this is to detach. "BREAK AWAY!' Separate yourself mentally, emotionally, psychologically and even physically and spiritually from that which is causing you so much pain. It's going to hurt anyway, remember. No, it won't be easy, because you really may be in love with her, but do yourself a favor, give it your best shot. There will be over one million divorces in the United States this year alone, and while you may not want to be in that number, you may have no choice in the matter. Thirty percent of the women who are killed in this country are murdered by husbands or boyfriends.

Detach, Let it Go. Start getting rid of the pain so that you can bgin to heal. No, it won't happen overnight, but in time it will happen.

Living without Love