Things are A Mess (We Broke Up) Don't Start A Relationship Off Wrong
The reason most relationships and marriages don't last is because
99.9% start off wrong. Most people are vulnerable when they first get out of a relationship. People need ample enough time to emotionally heal. Women should be extreme careful when the (
dancing with wolfs) circus of men "come a calling." Some men will wait patiently (while having sex with other women) for the end of your relationship. He embraces you with all your hurt and sadness, while he holds on to the rest of his women. These "
toxic down times" always lead people right into the next disastrous romance. Take the time to heal and collect your thoughts before jumping into life's next chapter. The
roller coaster of emotions will repeat itself if you have a shallow view of what makes a
Relationship or
Marriage work. If you fall in love or date someone for the following reasons,don't expect it to last...
- Looks (People get old)
- Money (Some lose it)
- Body (People gain weight)
- A Job (People lose jobs)
- House/Car (They're "repoed "everyday)
- Family (It's their family not yours)
- Friends (If you need their approval-your not relationship ready)
There's a laundry list of things that can derail a relationship. Just don't make a
mess of it before it starts...
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Great Read!
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